I just found out today that I'm pregnant with baby no 4. I always wanted 4 children but my dh only ever wanted 2 but he agreed to 3. So after 3 was born we weren't gonna have anymore but here we are.
We weren't using the most reliable form of contraception(withdrawal) but we hadn't had any slip ups. We also used condoms so I'm not sure how!!! This is not how I wanted to have my 4th. When I told my dh today he hasn't smiled yet or hugged me. He seems just gutted. I know he needs time but he's never been like this and I'm so close to crying.
Furthermore, my 3DSs are 4, 3, & 1. I just don't feel ready or equipped. Please someone reply and tell me it's gonna be alright??? I've already said if I can just make it to next year september (2010) I'll be alright I'm just not so sure about my marriage and I've never said that before.
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I'm near to tears right now. Just need some reassurance.
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Zola78 · 10/02/2009 21:30
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