Just done a test and found out I'm pregnant with baby number 4. I already have three lovely little ones - 8,6, just 4 and I'm not sure what having another one will do to our family. DH and I have been married for 10 years and I think another baby would put too much strain on our marriage - it's been constant sleepless nights for nearly 9 years now! (and I don't cope with lack of sleep well!) My husband didn't want number 3 (also a surprise - you'd have thought we'd have learnt that time!) but we went through with that pregnancy and he is really fantastic and hands on with all of the children. I'd have this child if I had his full support - as we make beautiful babies - but I already know I don't have which is hard. But in the reverse situation I'd be digging my heels in too. Logically I know that having a forth baby isn't the right thing for us but I just can't seem to get my heart around it. Has anyone else been in this situation?
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15/07/2014 20:16
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