I'm pregnant with my third ( very h wanted) child and finding myself slightly nervous about announcing to family, work etc. I know that 3 kids isn't really very large family at all in the scheme of things but I am surrounded by people who stopped / plan to stop at 2 -that includes my parents, mil, all aunties and uncles and most of my friends.
The thing is you don't have to go back too far to find whole heap of larger fams ( DH's Dad was one of 7 and my mum was one of 4) but I still have this feeling people will be shocked and maybe a little disapproving? As if we have somehow over stepped a mark or been a little indulgent IYKWIM?
We've been lucky to have a lot of help from family with our first 2. I struggled badly at first with 17 month gap and post natal anxiety. Don't want anyone to think we are taking the piss by heaping more on our plate (and theirs indirectly)
Does this all sound a bit ludicrous and paranoid? I think the pregnancy hormones are kicking in and I'm basically just bricking it. Constant news reports about UK being over run with resource-sapping babies doesn't help either.
Anyone any experience they willing to share?
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chezneyhawkes · 07/09/2013 23:24
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