Hi! I'm a long-term lurker and first-time poster. Hope I'm in the right forum.
Just wanted to start a thread for anyone going through investigations for miscarriages... Strictly speaking, I'm not a recurrent miscarrier as I've 'only' had two miscarriages in a row.
A quick history: DH (now 37) and I (now 28) started our TTC journey in March 2013, naively expecting to get PG within a month or two. After what felt like a few long months, I got my first BFP in July 2013 (4th cycle) and we were elated. Everything seemed to be going well - strong pregnancy symptoms from week 5, no bleeding, everything was normal. We were just waiting for our first ultrasound scan at 12 weeks. A week before that, we went to Greece for a holiday and I started spotting on our third day there. I was horrified and mentally prepared for the worst. Our fears were confirmed the next day, when ultrasound scan found an empty sac (I think they saw a fetal pole, but definitely no embryo/fetus, so it was possible that the embryo died very early on and had been reabsorbed). We flew back to the UK two days after that. Long story short, diagnosis was MMC. We first tried medical management but this failed. Had ERPC at the end of September and had my first 'normal' period on 1 November. The whole experience was devastating and very, very distressing, but we started TTC straight away
It might be worth mentioning that I had a consultation with Dr Adrian Lower in January 2014 to rule out Asherman's, the tests came back clear. It took us 10 cycles from the ERPC to finally conceive again. We had our second BFP in July - almost exactly the same week as my first BFP. We were cautiously optimistic this time round, but I sort of had a feeling quite early on that it was going to fail. Unlike the first pregnancy, I had very few symptoms this time round. The only symptom I had was sore breasts and enlarged nipples. Anyway, we had to go to Australia for a relative's wedding a week after BFP. The lack of symptoms was worrying but I tried to stay 'cautiously' positive. Sadly, I started spotting and then bleeding at 6.5 weeks. This time we decided to wait till we returned to the UK to see a doctor. The bleeding started off very light but gradually got heavier. At about 7.5 weeks, I had moderate cramps (like bad period pain) and felt a gush of blood come out in the bathroom. Ultrasound scan at EPU that afternoon confirmed that the miscarriage was complete, and blood tests two days later showed that my HCG levels were coming down.
So here we are - 2 pregnancies, 2 MCs. Since the NHS doesn't offer investigations until you've had 3 MCs in a row, DH and I have decided to go down the private route, as we just can't bear to wait ages to conceive again only to possibly miscarry another time.
After doing lots of research online, I've decided on seeing Dr Shehata, and yesterday I gave his clinic a call and was told that the earliest appointment we can get at his Harley Street clinic (I work and live in Central London; Surrey is to far away for me) is in December. I did some more research and decided to consult Dr Gorgy, who also has an excellent reputation. I called his clinic this morning and got an appointment confirmed for September 13/9. It feels good to be taking active steps in an otherwise helpless situation. So far, I've paid £50 over the telephone to secure the appointment, which will cost £200. From what I've read online, I expect the tests to cost around £2,000.
Will update this thread as I progress with the investigations. Hope this will help someone in a similar situation!!
Meanwhile, if you have any experience with Dr Gorgy (or MC investigations in general), please share with us.
Thank you and good luck to all of us TTCing! xxx
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Investigations after two consecutive miscarriages
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mackoo0524 · 30/08/2014 16:15
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