Hi all, I'm mid thirties and have one dc from IVF four years ago. In the past year I've had one further round of IVF, one medicated FET and about to embark on another FET next month.
With each of my failed cycles I've felt myself withdrawing from friends and family more and more, especially as they all seemed to think one round would be enough to get pregnant and now I've had two fail they don't ask me anymore (in fact they kept changing the subject if I spoke about it, so I don't tell them anymore).
I've also had lots of friends conceive naturally in the past few months, they talk constantly about their pregnancies but aren't interested in my IVF :-( don't get me wrong, I'm really happy for their pregnancies but have invested so much time, money and heartache intoIVF in the past year I could do with support. One just text me to say I'm lucky not to be pregnant as we're both fluey but I can take lemsip and she can't due to pg
I find work hard and stressful as I need the money to pay for treatment but I work in an unpleasant environment and they don't know about my IVF, I find myself very grumpy at work as infertility really knocked my self esteem, plus having to create excuses for tx appointments is stressful in itself (there's no way work would support me on IVF).
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dolphinsandwhales · 13/03/2014 09:02
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