I'm about to start my first cycle of IVF and I think I'm losing my husband. He's totally shut off. I don't know what to do.
The issue is with him, he has azoospermia and we had a rather unsuccessful sperm retrieval recently. They managed to get a small sample, but there's a high chance it won't survive the de-frosting process. But we're going to try - I have to try, otherwise I'll regret it forever.
I'm getting ready to accept no children, but realised recently that he's shut himself off entirely and that he's distancing himself. I'm scared he won't be able to get past 'letting me down' and that it will end our amazing 12 years together (9 years married).
I'm terrified. I don't know what to do. I feel sick or like crying all the time. Any advice?
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TBryan · 16/10/2013 13:17
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