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Scared for tomorrow

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Kannet · 03/06/2013 18:12

I find out tomorrow if my 4th embryo transfer has worked. This is our last embryo. I'm not feeling very positive, but dreading being told I have failed again.

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Nodney · 03/06/2013 18:14

Good luck kannet - I know just how horrible the wait is. Wishing you the very very best of luck x

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toffeelolly · 03/06/2013 18:37

Hope all goes well for you tomorrow. Good luck.

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Kannet · 04/06/2013 06:21

Well home test was negative, still have to have blood test to confirm. Gutted, no idea what to do next.

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Luckystarfour · 04/06/2013 07:30

Hi kannet

I know exactly how you feel, we had our 5th negative round. (5 in 2.5 years) only last week.

My advice would be - plan your a next steps. Never repeat exactly the same cycle, there's always something to learn from the last and change. I you can have the we embryoscopy £500.00 at our London clinic then have this as it really does identify any problem embryos to prevent them being transferred. We had a donor back up this round and because the donor sperm and my hubby's embryos were bru genetically affected it has highlighted there is on fact an egg problem too! In 4 rounds we had never known this.

We are just taking the difficult step of having an egg donor and a sperm donor - see my post - help needed.

One week on - we def. have our moments where we feel very sad but generally we still believe we will have our little family and all this pain will become a distant memory!

Keep strong and have a good cry when you need a good cry xxx

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Kannet · 04/06/2013 09:28

Thank you ,I'm not sure what to do next. Just not sure i can face another round.

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Londongirl84 · 04/06/2013 18:25

Thinking of you. Good luck x

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whyno · 04/06/2013 18:26

Hugs

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