Hi all - I wonder if others might be able to share their experience of locating an egg donor. My hubby and I are desperate to become parents. We have had 5 unsuccessful attempts at IVF;
4 x using our own egg and sperm - we had 1 positive outcome for 4 days then miscarried.
1 x using donor sperm
Until this recent cycle we were led to believe that we were just experiencing sperm factor difficulties, but using the latest embryoscopy method it showed that my eggs had caused genetically affected embryos even with the donor sperm.
I therefore know I?m unable to use my own eggs as we have now ticked pretty much every box in using our own egg and sperm and the continued negative outcomes are heartbreaking. We both feel strongly that the time has come to use donor eggs and donor sperm. This really is the final chapter in our IVF journey - we really do seem to 'have the t shirt' for most procedures testing to help us achieve our dream.
We are Midlands based and we are already with a lovely london clinic but we face a long wait now to join the donor waiting list. After 2.5 years of cycling and 5 failed rounds, we would so love to become parents sooner.
I wonder if others would share their stories about how they found their egg donor. My close friend Pocket had wonderful success on this site and had 20 wonderful ladies come forward and offer to help. Pocket is now 35+5 weeks and expecting her miracle daughter very soon with one of these donors :-)
MN moderators have now decided you can no longer call for donors as I might be a clinic, rather than a genuine lady looking for help.
This is so disappointing as I really had hoped we would be able to follow in Pockets footsteps. Apologies to those who responded to my thread and who I never had chance to respond to, before it was removed.
Sadly Pocket's thread now has been removed to - which is such as shame as Im sure many of you were following her progress.
If you feel you have experiences to share or are interested in reading more please do PM me, I have also been able to post on FF - see the link below
www.fertilityfriends.co.uk/forum/index.php?topic=307208.new#new
Still smiling at least and we intend to battle on. We wont stop believing this could happen for us.
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Luckystarfour · 31/05/2013 10:53
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