Hello all,
This is my first-ever post so apologies if in the wrong section etc!
I am almost 24 and have been diagnosed very recently with PCOS after sadly suffering a miscarriage (I hadn't known I was pregnant and wasn't actively trying). It was also discovered that my kidneys are substantially smaller than they should be, meaning I have very high b.p. After a very frank but helpful talk with my Dr, I was basically told that although it's a good sign my body was able to start a pregnancy, in the next few years it would only get more difficult and I would be more likely to need drugs/ivf.
After having had a week or so to digest this I raised it with my boyfriend; we have been together over 3 years and living together for almost 2, and he is coming up 30 in the next few months. We are both in secure jobs, and I said I would rather start trying now, as I'd always wanted kids within the next 3-4 years max anyway. However this completely freaked him out, with him saying the Dr said we had a good few years yet to even think about starting a family. He stressed he does want children, but doesnt want there to feel like there's a ticking clock.
Any advice at all on how to handle this situation would be greatly appreciated as its gotten me really down
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PCOS - boyfriend doesnt seem to understand, please help!
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kerryxlou · 13/02/2013 18:05
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