Hi
I really hope someone can provide some advice. I'm in a situation where I don't know what to do and I really need some help to decide. I realise I have to do something as soon as possible or else it could be too late.
I'm 46, almost 47 and I would like to have a child, am I too old? I got pregnant twice in 2011 and miscarried. I have social anxiety which is why I've waited for so long to try having children in the first place. I regret not trying any sooner and it's really troubling me. I'd love to be able to have a child or at least adopt one but I can't afford to have ivf and I don't think it would work because of my age. Is anyone in a similar situation to this?
I really am feeling desperate and even though I've spoken to people about it, they aren't encouraging me to have a child. However, my sisters who are all younger have got their children and everything seems to be concentrated on them, it's making me feel very inadequate and resentful but I don't want to feel that way. I know it's silly to feel left out but I love children, get on really well with them and always imagined having one eventually. Most people the same age or younger have children and I am a little envious of them. It's very difficult to adopt in the UK and I can't afford ivf. I am a Christian believer and I am looking really for the best way to achieve something that most people seem to have.
I hope someone will reply with some advice.
Thanks
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Re: Can anyone give some advice?
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guesthere · 07/02/2013 13:31
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