She was planning on IVF, but now knows this will be pointless. She isn't in work atm, and won't be for a few weeks, I would imagine.
I know people are telling her "there are options" and "she can adopt", but if someone said these things to me if I were in her position I would want to punch them.
I'm worried that I might be all "How are you, nice weather, going anywhere nice on your holiday?" while ignoring her pain, which I don't want to do. I really want to hug her and cry, which would be stupid in a public work environment. So I was wondering whether I should invite myself round to her house with a bottle of wine (we're not best friends, and I wouldn't usually!)
I so want to do the right thing, but don't know what that is....
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Colleague just found out she will never carry a baby. Best way to handle/what to avoid?
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AngiBolen · 29/01/2013 21:01
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