I hope I'm not being insensitive by posting here but I would really value some advice. I have a colleague who is going through IVF after unsuccessful IUI. I don't know her terribly well on a personal level but am very fond of her and respect her enormously. I work with her in a supervisory role. She puts a brave face on most of the time but also has days where she can barely function for sadness and anxiety.
What should I say to her? I've made time to listen when she feels like talking and she is very open about her treatment. I've responded positively and in an upbeat way to everything she said, but have also told her that it's ok to have very difficult moments and to find things tough. I have no direct experience of her situation but I do suffer from depression and I know how annoying it is when people give you a load of platitudes and you are supposed to be grateful for a pat on the hand.
Is there anything I can say or do for her that would help? I am crossing everything I have that this works for her.
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Lottapianos · 23/10/2012 15:05
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