In autumn, DH used a portion of his bonus to buy a massive, wall mounted, flat screen tv. I call it the Gaping Black Void (GBV.) To be fair, he earned it. He's on the road M-F and is only home on weekends. He is making huge sacrifices so that we can afford for me to be at home educating DS.
But, since the GBV, it takes enormous energy to cajole DS into doing all the lovely normal things he used to do. (Like go outside, muck about in the dirt, jump in puddles, play with all of his lovely educational toys.) We turn the tv off and two hours later he's asking for it again. I don't mind the educational programmes. It's all the other junk that annoys me.
We're lucky to have a number of home ed programmes in the area. A full day of enrichment classes, cheap classes for home edders at the museum, science centre and zoo. He also has a Spanish tutor, a Hindu tutor, takes violin, figure skating and capoeira. We also use Studydog and BrainpopJr. So, it's not like he is understimulated or under served. I just feel he could be doing so much more!
I believe in autonomy - but - if I didn't nag he'd sit and watch or play video games all day. (Not working for me.) He's averaging 4 -5 hours on the tv a day. Come the NY, should I put my foot down? I want to reign him in to 3 hours - at most! And I want to introduce a daily work folder - don't finish the work, don't watch tv.
What to you think?
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poetmum · 30/12/2008 22:10
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