We took DS2 10yo (SEN) out of school at the beginning of this term (de-registered etc). We have been going over his school workbooks and doing some of the tests online to find out where to start teaching him from.
Today we found out that he doesn't really know his 2 times tables, he doesn't know them 'automatically', he still has to add up on his fingers for 2x7 2x8 & 2x9.
But the bad thing is that I snapped really badly at him (bloody heck, thats easy, you should be able to do that etc) for not being able to do the game we downloaded,(2 times table stuff) to help him, and he was enjoying the game so much. Now he doesn't want to do it again as 'he can't do it'. I've blown it and its only the first week. I was so angry at him for giving up so easily on part of the puzzle but I shouldn't have taken my frustrations out on him because it wasn't him I was so frustrated at, it was the school s for telling us that his strong point was maths and that he was working with his peers etc..
I just don't feel I have the right temperment for this. DH is more patient, but he was ill in bed for the day (he's disabled), I've been on the verge of tears all day and have told DS repeatedly that its not his fault that Mummy was angry. But it doesn't stop me feeling so guilty, I should have taken him out of school years ago and now I've done it I can't do the job.
Wail!!!!
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discoverlife · 14/01/2008 22:59
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