I'm home-educating 4 small children - really because the local state schools aren't up to it, and we can't afford private schools.
We are London exiles, and miss London life and our friends there hugely. We miss the hustle and bustle, the people we knew doing interesting things in politics, literature, law, human rights, acting, journalism etc. We haven't managed to make any friends locally that I feel comfortable with or share interests with - either within the local home-edding community, or through local toddler groups etc. Local aspirations seem quite low - for parents and for children.
As we have 4 very young children, they always have someone to play with. But they will need friends too! The local home-edders I've managed to meet have a different approach to my more formal teaching of my children - they practise unschooling instead. I do this too - but I also do formal teaching every morning, which seems unusual here. The parents also share interests with each other, but I share few with them.
We don't really fit in with the prevailing culture where we live - which is one of green/activist identity politics. I do try to do my bit for society and the environment, but it's not my 'identity', if you see what I mean. And so I'm very lonely. I used to live here some time ago for a number of years, and we've been here for 2 years this time round. I've met lots of people, but none who could be friends.
Are there any other home-schoolers out there who have felt isolated, bored, and worried that their children might become so do to lack of social opportunites? Do you have any advice?
We would love to move back to London, but can't afford to. If this message will chime with anyone (possibly not - I'm beginning to feel completely alone!) it might well be with other reluctant London exiles.
(Please don't attack, I'm feeling low enough as it is! I do want to stress again, I'm grateful for green/activists and hippy types and the good they do, it takes all kinds of us to make a healthy world - it's just not my identity. The kinds of people I feel comfortable with don't live here. I've never found any, anyway!)
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Home-educating, missing London, and lonely.
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thinandfat · 07/10/2013 12:43
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