Recently I decided to homeschool my daughters. I am fortunate that my DH and both our families are on side, my friends have been lovely and supportive but the teachers?!!! Their attitude has been APPALLING to say the least. DD1's headmistress put on a 'trying to understand' face while making underhand comments like 'perhaps she's unhappy because of problems at home' and 'we can't say for definite that she's unhappy because of school'. She scrabbled around for things that DD1 would miss out on and the best she could come up with was 'she won't be able to develop her debating skills'. Laughable, but she was so horrid and disbelieving of DD1's unhappiness (DD1 suffers from stiff-upper-lip and will only 'allow' herself to cry with me) I almost cried. I had wanted to keep her onside just in case we did decide to try again with school but her attitude put me right off.
Yesterday I told DD2's nursery teacher that we were homeschooling (I wouldn't have bothered as it's none of her business but DD2 is quite chatty and kept talking about it to her): she looked horrified and immediately said 'but what about their social life?' Now. I actually don't mind this question too much if it's said in a friendly enquiring 'I don't know anything about homeschooling' way. But when it's said with a look of horror, followed by 'and your two really need to be socialised' WTF??!!! I just swallowed my anger and said 'thank you but I have thought this through'. What I really wanted to do was to scream and shout at her.
THEN, I was collared by the head of the nursery at the door who obviously realised I wasn't going to change my mind (puts her ahead of the other two) but still wanted to impart her opinion (WHY?!). Her opinion: I should have put a stop to DD1's crying and anger about school; she would grow out of it; she would get used to school eventually; DD2 is very different to DD1 (really? So glad she told me); they would both miss out on social life at school; I am not a trained teacher so will not be able to teach them very well; she feels SO sorry for my DDs; BLAH BLAH BLAH.
RRRRRRAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.
Got it off my chest. Thank you for reading.
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LucyBucy · 11/06/2013 13:57
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