Very personal question probably of no relevance or interest to anyone else: my friend accuses me of being too judgmental and rejecting men I have had dates with because I find it boring that they seem to be working all the time. I said that if during the date the only thing he shows off to me about is his work, then it makes me think that he has got no other interets, and I would not enjoy being his girlfriend. My friend says it is wrong of me to expect childless single men to have achieved the type of work/life balance that I have worked really hard at over 4 years, and, if a married man does not work late every evening, "Who will earn the money?" I thought that a man who was attracted to a woman who wanted to stay at work after having children would feel that because she earned a good amount, they could ultimately share breadwinning, and he could therefore have more time at home, eg come home for dinner, attend social family activities, and not be hellbent on climbing to the very very top of the career tree as number one priority in life. Are there any men like that in dual income households, or should I just accept that all men make work their number one priority, and pick a boyfriend who will work all the time, earn more than me, and not tread on my toes with any domestic matters?
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outofpractice · 11/03/2004 17:06
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