Hi. I gave up working when I had my ds. My dh works full time and we live on his wage.
I am not sure whether I should be going back to work to earn some money. I thought we were getting by - but when I was discussing money with my sil she was horrified on how much 'spare' cash we have.
It works out that after everything (which includes a loan, paying into shares (£50), credit card, insurances, driving lessons, nappies, all bills, mortgage, food) we have £100 spare cash left over.
This means that for home improvements (we are doing up our house) we have to save up and do things gradually - rather than when I was working - just going out and spending in big sums.
I thought that we were luck to not just break even - but to have a little bit over - but am I kidding myself?? Looing at how mortified sil was - surely we are not on the breadline? One of my friends is on benefits and barely breaks even.
I hope that this makes sense. Please advise on whether I should be out earning money, am I being selfish depriving my family of a second income? I thought I would spoil my ds with love - not money - is this just hippy thinking?!!
thanks
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puddinggal · 25/02/2004 10:27
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