OK, in my attempt to save cash I am considering hiring an au pair and putting dd into nursery full time instead of having a full time live out nanny + a cleaner + a dogwalker. I would save approximately £9000 per year
On downside have a wonderful nanny who dd adores and I don't want to lose but that's my decision I suppose.
Can't just have nursery though as work odd hours and they only seem to do 8 to 6 (which is fine sometimes but not others).
Plus need cleaning and dogwalking done. 25 hours per week would be fine as would only need the au pair to drop off/pick up dd when I am working away (2 or 3 days a week, the rest of the time I work from home), do a couple of night's a week babysitting and walk the dog and do the cleaning/ironing. So she would have plenty of spare time to pursue language courses etc.
What I am wondering is, what is it like having someone living in your house? How do you trust someone, can you get pukka references etc (I knew the nanny for 2 years before dd was born so didn't have that problem). And is it ok for them to have occasional sole charge of an 18 month old?
And will I have to give up my lovely bedroom or are they happy with a small (ie 10 x 8 ft) room. Do they hang around all the time? Could I bear it?
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Au Pairs - anyone got experience of them?
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CountessDracula · 12/02/2004 16:53
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