I am a qualified structural engineer, but haven't worked in the Engineering industry since before my daughter was born 6 years ago. Prior to that I had around 20 years experience, working my way up throught the ranks of office junior, technician, graduate, becoming chartered and at senior engineer level.
The shine went off it a bit after I had my first DS, but I went back to work when he was 2 for a further four years till having DD. I got pregnant again in quick succession, so never made it back to that job. A period of nasty PND meant going back after DS2 wasn't an option, but I started some part time care work 2.5 years ago when he was 2 which I am still doing.
He will be starting school in September, and I need to do something other than wiping old people's bottoms and making endless cups of tea for the rest of my working life. I've considered teaching, but not sure it's for me; have done a Teaching Assistant level 2 course, but the money is shite and would be left with less than I get at the moment after paying for before and after school club for DS2 and DD. DS1 is going to high school so can look after himself for a few hours so no care needed for him.
I've looked into furthering my career in care as I do enjoy it, but again, money isn't great, hours are unsociable and I haven't got any formal care qualifications and current employer are reluctant to put me through the courses as my previous level of education means they won't get funding for me.
My options are increasingly narrowing into getting back into Engineering, but I feel I will be selling my soul to the devil if I did this , but, as a graduate with 20 years in a respected profession, surely I am worth more than a bottom wiper for the rest of my working life? But I have no idea how to get this accross to prospective employers.
The few interviews I have had, I have failed at as they were simple "we ask, you answer types" with no interaction from the interviewers at all and apparently I didn't give enough detail in my answers. Other jobs that I feel I could do, I never get a chance as I don't hit one crucial point on the person spec. In engineering, it's your CV that does the talking...or at least gets you in the door so you can talk!
Thanks for wading through this, and sorry it's so long ; I would be greatful for any advice as I'm slowly sinking, both emotionally and financially!
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LackaDAISYcal · 12/06/2013 11:50
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