It's DD1's first day at school tomorrow. She'll be absolutely fine, but I'm having a wobble. Being a WOHM ('working outside the home mother') is a good choice for my family, probably the only choice (and so not a choice at all), I love my job and DD1 is happy, secure and enthusiastic but this is the end of the beginning and I feel what? Not guilty or even regretful but wistful about the time I missed with her pre-school. The milestone of the first day at school seems to mark particularly trenchantly that it is time we will never be able to retrieve.
There is also a creeping realisation that parenting a child at school is somehow more complicated than caring for a pre-schooler and that it will be very difficult to delegate the school-stuff. Our nanny is perfect, but I still feel uncomfortable that it is she who will hear about DD1's day at school, who will rescue her when she's sick, who will work out who her friends are or chat to her teacher at the school door. I think it's been said before, but as children get older they seem to needs their parents, not a professional substitute, more not less. And it's going to be hard for me to be there more.
Any other WOHM out there have the faintest idea what I'm rambling about?
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Random and rambling thoughts of a working mother facing DD1's first day at school...
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Issymum · 05/09/2005 14:24
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