Can anyone help me with dealing with a 7 year old who is very bright and quite honestly very challenging/tiring to parent!Friends and relatives will often be impressed by him and say 'here's a politician in the making' type stuff. But from morning till night he is keen to argue and debate and this tends to manifest itself in very negative perspectives on others' (including us!) This is perhaps his attempt to draw me or his stepdad into conflict with him, which he find interesting, or just to see our reactions? We are either in situations where he is trying to criticise or refine what we adults are saying or doing, or he is complaining about and criticising other people in his class at school. We have tried ignoring it, refusing to talk about the particular topic of focus any more once it's been dealt with in brief, focusing on 'the 2 best things of today' before bedtime, reasoning with him about the fact that it's the teachers job to comment on what other children are doing rather than his, but sometimes we end up getting drawn in to the arguments and become cross about his persistance which doesn't work either. We seem to be able to be able to manage 'jolly jolly jolly' for a very limited time, although perhaps this is the best tactic. Anyone found any successful ways of dealing with this? I am worried we are constantly crushing him, but are finding it very wearing putting up with it for such prolonged periods! Just to anticipate, I don't think this is an issue of reacting to step parenting etc, though this sometimes adds another layer to it, as he does it with everyone...
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