dd is very able academically. She is in YR3. The Junior school is separate from her old Infant school. Literacy is fine and handled well - she has been bringing in her own book since YR R. She is pretty good at making the most of writing assignments - she says that she can put in as much as she likes.
Its maths that has always been harder to get her stretched in. Her own teacher has admitted in a roundabout way that it is hard with the extreme range in her class. dd consistently gets full marks. they did some assessments last week and dd said that she had time to check her work 4 times.
She picks things up so quickly - wanted to know how to divide double digits into large numbers so I showed her long division. She understood it first time and had fun playing with it for 20 mins. I suspect though that many kids in her class would understand if they were shown so I'm not sure thats a good indicator.
dd was upset last night. She said that maths is boring so she tries to help other people in her class but they get cross cos they don't understand her (lol!)
She also says that showing workings out slows her down when she just knows the answers. She does show her workings out and is accurate with them, she just hates it when it seems pointless on what to her is very easy stuff.
Shes also becoming aware that she is different from others academically, she got upset last night that the other kids tell her she is the cleverest in the class - I do point out to her that everyone is different and has different talents but I'm not sure what else to say to her?
My main aim is to make sure that dd grows up well rounded socially and happily. However I don't want her getting bored and tearful and I'm concerned that she isnt actually learning how to think and puzzle things out in maths.
I've got a meeting on thursday with dds teacher to talk over all this but I'm not sure how to handle it, or the approach to take. I certainly don't want to come across as pushy or that I'm assuming that the teacher doesn't know what shes doing - I'm sure she does; dd certainly isn't unique. I'm just concerned about dd.
Any advice please?
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OhYouBadBadKitten · 13/05/2008 10:55
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