You'd think we'd feel proud but unfortunately at the moment it feels more like a bloody curse! We've been having problems with dd1 and her school for the last 9 months (i.e. ever since she started at this junior school). Its been awful! Every week has been a new complaint from boredom to can't do it, to her friends not playing with her. Finally I started to think she was being bullied. Unfortunately I didn't seriously intervenne in time and she spent a whole week of sick in pure fear of going in to school. I've been into the school loads and loads and with some very helpful mums on here wrote a fab complaint letter to the head etc. The school feel that she's a very average student and that is a little too delicate. I'm furious that my child that would once eat books and live in imagination now resents books because she's teased about them, is desperate to fit in and has been put on anti depressants. To support me my dm offered to pay for a couple of sessions with a child psychologist. We've been to the first session and his conclusion is that all of our issues have the classic hall marks of a bright child being seriously frustrated at school. Its all very well for him to deliver this conclusion but what now. In his opinion he doesn't feel that she will suit LEA schools at all and that she needs far more individualised teaching with higher teacher ratios. He's suggested we hunt out a Montessori school and send there. Well that's ok then isn't it. But number 1 we've no money for private schooling and number 2 even should we suddenly win the lottery there's no primary level montessori in the county in which we live.
I do feel we need to move her from this school as they have let her down terribly regardless of whether she's "gifted" or not. But I just don't know where to. How will I know that the same troubles wont start all over again?
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Just been told that dd1's problem might be because she might be "super" intelligent. Why does this not feel good?
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Wills · 04/05/2008 21:26
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