ds1 is yr9 and very very g+t in all subjects ( bar PE lol)
has had a meltdown at school failing to motivated and he has been teased by another kid for being such a boffin- actually the term is tangoed? Face slapped. Ds1 flipped into rage was pulled off kid and calmed down and then dissolved into sobbing mess. Undermining himself. Revealing a perfection complex but he is in bits as he cannot get motivated to try harder as work not challenging enough.
I hve explained to him before that he just has to get on and do it. Not realizing that he had perfectionist complex and slowly he has been declining. Hence snapping like that. V out of character he is master of control of emotion.
school have referred him to mental health team as he is saying he is crap and a failure. No idea why as his marks are mega good. No pressure from home do long as he is happy I do not care what his marks are
am rambling here but school ( v good grammar) say they are using SEN budget and resources to assist him achieve more. This may mean moving up a year is some subjects and taking gcses early. He is already doing some in yr10.
have had good talk to him and he is feeling better.
He now feels guilty about taking SEN resources though.
Any thoughts about this as I know many seriously G+t kids do fall under SEN. But also feel that had he not shown his emotions that day... Nothing would be changing.
am bit um er about things.
This came out of blue btw I thought ds1 was happiest he'd ever been atm
that has thrown me sideways tbh
Talk to other parents about parenting a gifted child on this forum.
Gifted and talented
ds1 under SEN now for G and T. As it is impacting his mental health.
Piffle · 04/05/2008 11:31
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