Hi all.
I have just realised that I have entered into the gifted and talented thread. Apologies if this is misleading, my son has never been identified as this, he may well be (or never will be) tbh I feel a bit uncomfortable with it. However I have read many posts here which seem very similar so thought it would be a good place to air this.
Okay, so my 7yo son is complaining of boredom at school. Each day is a bit of a battle to get him in and I have recently received a call asking to pick him as he was feeling sick (he later confessed he was actually 'bored')
He has 2 teachers who job share, I'll call them teacher 1 & 2. At a recent parents evening Teacher 2 asked me straight away whether I thought he was being challenged enough, (which is really hard to say when not actually in the classroom with him) Being guided by her we set out a plan of action, where she suggested being a bit stricter and really pushing him, she also noted that he has been considered to be a little bit arrogant when it comes to learning (I agree with her actually) Afterwards I had a quick check through his books and reading material. His books showed many examples of differentiation, but having read other posts here, it could be beneficial to look again.
His stated reading material and grade is way below his ability, which makes me question his other grades a bit. When I checked for the next box 'up' there wasn't one. When I got home I also realised we are at an all time low with suitable material- I've asked him what he wants and he has requested 'adventure and comics' (he's an avid drawer too) so any suggestions would be greatly welcomed, however, am wondering how and if to approach this with the school?
Maths is his favourite subject (ironically, or not, this is his least strongest subject, although still in the 3's) He detests writing, but (much to his teachers frustration as they have spoken of his capability) is naturally very talented should he actually want to be.
I'm just looking for any thought or suggestions on how to deal with this. We love the school - it's incredibly enthusiastic and has an exceptionally creative approach to learning, plus the pastoral care is outstanding. I know he's definitely capable of 'working' both the teachers and myself, but his teacher number 1 twigged this straight off at the start of the year and I am catching on, so between us we have him fairly sussed in this sense.
I have tried extending his work at home, but if he gets the faintest whiff he gets furious and completely shuts down. Any thoughts or suggestions would be greatly welcomed, could definitely benefit from the gift of hindsight. It's also worth mentioning that my main wish for him isn't his grades - it's his love of learning and that he doesn't think he can just coast through it...
thanks in advance.
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camberwellred · 22/03/2014 15:42
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