My 14 year old daughter goes to a selective girls? grammar school. Up until recently, she?s always been happy at school ? highly motivated and a hard worker and tended to get top marks in most subjects. She?s also quite modest ? so would never brag about this. She has a close circle of friends who mean a lot to her. Her English teacher in Years 7 and 8 was sacked and a new teacher came in Year 9. He, apparently, is very charismatic (teaches drama also) but after 2 months of his lessons, my daughter?s getting very depressed. The content of his lessons is all doom and gloom ? nuclear war, end of the world, torture, death sentences? There really seems to be no end to his distressing topics. He coyly warns his pupils at the beginning of each lesson: ?Don?t get upset, but??. The most disturbing thing is when he told his class about when he attended the funeral of a previous pupil of his (their age) who had committed suicide due to depression. Apparently he was so ?moved? he sat down on a bench and wrote a poem about her! This seems like very bizarre and inappropriate behavior to me ? how can a teenager?s suicide be turned into an anecdote that hinges upon his ?creative powers? as a poet? The thing that worries me most is I discovered a letter (on my desktop ? so possibly she wanted me to see it) from my daughter to the teacher. She?s usually really polite but in this letter she lets rip ? she?s fed up of his ?chats? and takes offense that he tells her she is too intelligent for her (very close) friends and that she ought to consider the ?implications of socialising? with those who are her ?intellectual inferiors?. I don?t know if she sent this letter. But I feel this teacher is transgressing the boundaries of normal, teacherly behaviour and I sense him as a threat to my daughter?s (and other girls in her class) well-being. I know in advance that any approach I might make to the Head of English will be fobbed off. Am I over- or under-reacting? I?d appreciate any suggestions as to what to do. Thanks.
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