I have been looking at this site now for 2 months. And I think that a lot of us mums worry too much about what our children should be doing/pooing/eating/drinking/talking/walking/learning etc.etc.
I think the most important thing to look out for is our childrens happiness. I have three dd and although with the first I was a bit more worried, generally the more laid back I have been the more I notice when something is genuinely wrong.
I think there is too much pressure on us to be the perfect mother via the press/media/grandparents.
Do I shout too much? Probably. Am I lazy with them? Sometimes. Do I feed them rubbish? occasionally. Did I worry when my dd2 didn't stop wearing a nappy until she was 3 even though my mother nagged me? did i hell.
Are my girls happy? Well judging there faces I'd say yes. I say take the pressure off ourselves and enjoy these wonderful, joyful human beings for what they are now and balls to the world!!!!
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goodkate · 22/05/2004 22:25
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