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Mumsnet Discussions: Further education : Am I too old? (32 messages)
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Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By lilacclaire on Wed 09-Apr-08 18:06:45
I hate my job with a vengence (debt collector in a call centre) and have kind of been drifting since having ds.
My partner works in care and is now a manager and i've always thought his job sounds great (yes I do hear all the moans as well).
I can't see myself working the rest of my life out doing what I do just now.
I have very little qualifications, they would all probably be obsolete by now anyway, at 32 and a HALF grin
am I too old to start again.
Im really worried about what finances you receive etc, could anyone give any advice on that. TIA!!
Oh and ive just submitted an application to college...
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By hercules1 on Wed 09-Apr-08 18:08:20
God,no You've got 30 years at least work left in you. Dh is 38 and is having a major career change as didnt want to spend the rest of his life doing what he was doing.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By lilacclaire on Wed 09-Apr-08 18:08:21
Also I bumped into a woman i used to work with a few years ago and she had went into this line of work (this is what got me thinking about it) and she was glowing saying she couldn't believe how great it was.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By zippitippitoes on Wed 09-Apr-08 18:08:24
of course you arent too old i am atr colege full time and i am 50

so good lukc finances depends on what kind of course and whether you have tax credits or benefits

there are various things to help and colleges have hardship funds for the worst off
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By dustystar on Wed 09-Apr-08 18:08:48
You are never too old imogrin My Mum went back to uni fulltime and did her B.ED. My I was 14 and my sisters were 12 and 7. There is support out there but it was grants in my day and its chnaged now.

Good luck with you applicationsmile
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By FioFio on Wed 09-Apr-08 18:09:02
no start again it will do you the WORLD OF GOOD

ITS never TOO LATE

do you hear me?

life IS for living
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By lilacclaire on Wed 09-Apr-08 18:09:34
Thanks H, I can't see myself hounding people for the next 30 years or even 30 months but DP really loves his work and im so jealous of that.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By dustystar on Wed 09-Apr-08 18:09:38
Meant to add that Mum was 40 when she startedsmile
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By lilacclaire on Wed 09-Apr-08 18:10:56
Im just going to go for it.
F* the money side, we're not in debt and we all like beans!
I feel like a weight has been lifted!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By FioFio on Wed 09-Apr-08 18:12:43
good for you

please let us know ALL the details
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Tnog on Wed 09-Apr-08 18:12:48
I teach art to adults and it's fantastic to see how much they blossom during their course.

Good luck with the college application.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By lilacclaire on Wed 09-Apr-08 18:14:41
Thanks everyone, your encouragement means a lot.
Im hoping to work with adults with learning disabilities as a support worker.
Not glamarous but quite rewarding I would imagine (unlike present job)
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By barnstaple on Wed 09-Apr-08 18:17:01
NO YOU ARE NOT TOO OLD!!!!!

I went to University at 34. It was fantastic and a great start to a new life.

My experience of the lecturers at Uni/college is that they are delighted with mature students as they are there because they want to be and are interested in the subjects.

Have a fantastic time. Best of luck.

By the way, there's a University of the Third Age which is for pensioners, so at 32 you'd be too young. My mum started Cosmology at the age of 77, having been studying Geology for about 5 years before that.

Life Long Learning. Go for it.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By SubRosa on Wed 09-Apr-08 19:12:20
Definitely go for it. I'm at uni, doing a part-time degree and it's brilliant. Although it's hard work, I don't regret it for a minute.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By miffymum on Wed 09-Apr-08 19:21:29
You are NEVER too old. You'll probably get loads out of your course that a younger undergraduate wouldn't - if my experience was anything to go by I was far too busy getting drunk and 'finding myself' and only figured out the education part was quite interesting about 3 weeks before my finals. Doh.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By lizziemun on Wed 09-Apr-08 19:25:45
You not to old. I'm 38 and am just about to start a correspondence (sp) course just have to decide whether to do book keeping or to a course to be a class room assistance.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By scottishmummy on Wed 09-Apr-08 19:25:52
Go for it!many careers actually value and accomodate life skills and maturity
eg Social work
teaching
public sector

nhs careers

teaching career

social care and social work

already you have tons of skills
- organised
- meet deadlines
- work under pressure
-etc
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By lilacclaire on Wed 09-Apr-08 21:06:23
I definetly wouldn't have had the maturity required to do a course/job im hoping for when I was younger, so thats true and yes i want to be there as opposed to still 'finding myself' (took long enough though).
Im really feeling positive about this.
Just need to pass the driving test now, dp is very supportive as this is his line of work, so I suppose thats a bonus and support in the actual learning.
Can't wait, am just going to get started as soon as possible, no putting it off until this or that is paid or anything, both feet straight in.
I know its not great paid, but i'd rather get shit wages for doing something i like, rather than shit wages for doing a job i hate (like just now)
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By scottishmummy on Wed 09-Apr-08 21:12:22
plus support woker can lead to senior support worker or team leader etc. how exciitibg - changes phwoar
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By lilacclaire on Sat 12-Apr-08 13:26:21
To be honest, i think i would be happy being a support worker, ive never been very ambitious as in a career climber, I would just be extremely happy doing a job I actually enjoy!
I can't wait to be a student, better get the botox topped up so I don't look like an old hippy haha smile
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By kdk on Wed 20-Aug-08 19:20:04
Go for it - I'm 44 and about to start college to retrain as a literacy/esol teacher. You are never too old to learn something new! Good luck in whatever choice you make
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Missytrouble on Wed 20-Aug-08 21:46:23
Good luck lilacclaire!

I am starting a social work degree in September. Am giving up a good salaried part time job but like you I knew I couldn't do the job for lots of years to come. I'm 37 so v old

Go for it and have a great time!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By PavlovtheCat on Wed 20-Aug-08 21:48:47
Not too old at all.

I have enquired, for example about re-training as a lawyer, thought I was well past it, and was advised by local law firm that they in fact like older students as they are less likely to bugger off chasing their careers, have more commitments to keep them there, and have lots of life experience. I was actively encouraged. I have a degree already, so would take 4 years? to re-train at 31.

So, absolutely not too old!!!!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By ilovemydog on Thu 21-Aug-08 21:09:46
My mom did her Ph.d at 55...

pavlov, if you already have a degree, can't you just do the conversion course? It's only a year full time...
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By PavlovtheCat on Thu 21-Aug-08 21:21:44
Ilovemydog - 1 year conversion, 1 year bar/solicitor equivalent, 2 years pupilage/trainee/internment whatever its called. shock. All the conversion course does is change my degree into law degree, I still have to do all the other stuff that law students have, on top of that.

I am going to do it, but not right now. Its a LOT of work, will involve a huge income drop and we cant do it just yet. But I will.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By ilovemydog on Thu 21-Aug-08 21:27:04
pupillage/training contracts are a year smile.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By PavlovtheCat on Thu 21-Aug-08 21:31:05
Are they? I spoke to a lawyer who said two. Oh, maybe I got that mixed with the bar/solicitor course? Maybe it was two years total!!!

I guess you work in law right? It seems very complicated and long! But I think worth it. The local uni has links with local solicitors firms, who offer sponsorship for those who live locally and want to stay working locally after qualifying.

So, it will be three years in total then?
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By ilovemydog on Thu 21-Aug-08 21:56:24
the conversion course, as you know, is a year. The LPC/BVC is a year. Pupillage, one does 1st 6th, 2nd 6th and occasionally 3rd 6th. Training contract is a year...

So, it would only be 3 years... smile just knocked off a year for you...
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By PavlovtheCat on Thu 21-Aug-08 22:06:10
Oh that is good. I just added the LPC to the training contract and the got it in my head that that was the training contract period!!

Sorry for hijacking the thread lilacclaire! blush. See your thread is encouraging others too!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By 3andnomore on Sat 23-Aug-08 10:50:10
Definitely not to old

But I would say that, of course, as I am 38 now and will be starting my OT degree soon
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By 3andnomore on Sat 23-Aug-08 10:52:42
lilac, if you want to work as a support worker with people with learning disabilities, you could apply for a job in a home or somehting liek that, and usually your NVQ's will be paid for and you do your learning whilst earning.....
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By AbbeyA on Sat 23-Aug-08 10:55:32
Go for it-you are far too young to be stuck in a job that you don't like!


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