Hi Mum2lots, aunty and all
I'm angling to get the badge for "bizarrest financial support offer from a LA" . Support plan finally landed on our doormat this Thursday for our SGO hearing which starts on Monday. The LA has offered financial support only "till the youngest child reaches school age". Eh? so DCs' need for financial support evaporates then, only a few months after they come to us? Even though SWs said I should stop work for 18 months to 2 years?
Presumably they expect we will shut up and accept to save them money: SW often tells us support is dictated by (arbitrary) limits set by the LA rather than financial or other need - or in fact case law (and inferred that we are lucky to get what they have offered, snort). Also the Support Plan just states a weekly amount with no detail of how it's worked out, if it takes into account my loss of income and increased costs (from moving to larger home). And very sketchy about other ongoing support for DCs we verbally agreed with the SW.
The LA must think we are idiots or pushovers. We are neither. Tsk, they've taken a year to get to this hearing, now they want us to sign the support plan in 2 days. Obviously we are not going to [rolls up sleeves]. We'll get the right support plan for the DCs with the LA or despite the LA. The more they try to make us sign an inadequate support plan at short notice without advice, the more I know how important it is. Every time they say "you don't need to worry about that" or "you don't need that in writing" I so know I do.
The LA has also been playing silly games saying we don't need legal representation or even advice (till the judge made them and even then it was for less than an hour), we don't need to come to the hearing, forgetting to tell us where the hearing is etc. It all just makes us stronger & fight harder for the DCs.
Do they not know that I have the full collective knowledge & experience of MN on my side?
So to Mum2lots and others going through this SGO process - keep strong and don't be pushed around, don't let LAs behave shabbily! And I will happily make badges for you all !
[And, more practically, once we've had the hearing I'll let you know what they have offered us in financial and other support, as I think transparency helps. Other than "as little as possible": thank the lord for case law.]