Hi, my ex husband and his wife of 6 years are going through the foster process. I have 3 sons with my ex husband aged 21, 19 & 17 - my ex husband has informed my 3 sons that the Foster people want to interview them and ask them questions about their father and his wife etc. My ex husband has jokingly intimated that they should say favourable things about him and his wife. The problem they have with this is the old cliche - the boys do not have anything to do with their father's new wife - they never speak or see her. She has behaved badly towards them acting very jealous of them and in turn my sons have been very rude to her and blanked her due to her behaviour towards them. Their father has told them that they will get to see the report and see the comments they make! This causes them concern - is this true will any interviews that the boys do not be treated confidentially. At the end of the day the boys are concerned that they rarely see their father and that he will have even less time for them and that they may say the wrong things (the truth!!) I should also mention that he already has 3 step children with his new wife (3 children from her 3 last relationships). Also out of interest is their any financial gain with fostering? thanks in advance for any information.
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bevy2603 · 19/06/2012 21:32
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