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I'm going!

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Feminine · 08/10/2011 15:29

Posting to make sure I stay away! Grin

I don't feel part of it here ...its been a year now.

And to be really truthful ...I feel ignored.

Don't have that problem in RL , I think I must be either too sociable/needy or big-headed!

Bye.

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southeastastra · 08/10/2011 15:41

you have to put in the hours feminine. don't flounce if you still have fun here

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TheOriginalFAB · 08/10/2011 15:50

I wouldn't ignore you but tbh I have never seen a post from you.

Stay it you want too, someone will talk to you Smile.

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MardyMwahHaHa · 08/10/2011 15:52

Feminine. I think we all feel ignored from time to time. I am the queen of the unanswered threads and posts sometimes. Why not stay a while and if I see you around I'll talk to you.

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GypsyMoth · 08/10/2011 15:54

Feminine... You are on the USA so post at different times! Don't go,you maybe miss the best part of the day?

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CheerfulYank · 09/10/2011 08:15

I know you, I've seen you around. Go on, stay! :)

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Catslikehats · 09/10/2011 08:25

Don't go for that reason.

I often feel ignored - I think unless you are unspeakably vile all the time or post extensively on on of the niche boards then it is very easy to be lost in numbers. Doesn't mean your contributions aren't welcome (at least that is what I tell myself Grin )

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MardyMwahHaHa · 09/10/2011 09:45

Queenofdenial. Your contributions are very welcome too.

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Feminine · 09/10/2011 14:45

I feel very Blush

I am wondering if my post was an effort to go cold turkey for me?

I do feel a little invisible ...but I could have just stayed away for a bit I guess?

Thank you all for being so nice ...I think I might just stay...

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Feminine · 09/10/2011 14:47

Ilove thats true.:)

I'm coming back to the UK next year ...maybe I will post at better times?

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Lifeissweet · 09/10/2011 14:49

Yay! I'm glad you did a public flounce and were persuaded to stick with it. I post lots for a week or so and then go quiet for a while, so no one has a clue who I am on here, but I don't mind that. I just like listening to people's stories and throwing in the odd comment here and there. I'm not really in it to make friends as such, just to share experiences and hear some other points of view.

Stay! It's good!

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Feminine · 09/10/2011 14:53

Oh...I know what really bothered me (come to think of it [wink) ) was that nasty mitmoo thread where one particular poster thought I was her.

Likening me to her/ and saying she didn't like my posts either was a bit nasty.

PM'S were exchanged about me , I explained how it couldn't be me ...and yet not one said sorry.

Ilove I think you actually told them,if I remember correctly?

I now sound 14 Grin and yet its my 40th on Friday!

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sloggies · 09/10/2011 16:37

Tis horrid that, I agree Feminine. I was once accused on another site of being a troll. Not nice, but fortunately I too had someone to vouch for me, which was lovely. But I agree, leaves a nasty taste.

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Catslikehats · 09/10/2011 19:01

Aw feminine that thread was bizarre - everyone had been sent a little wild by the mitmoo business, tensions were running high and people were a little fraught.

Don't be upset that no one said sorry - tis often the way. Doesn't mean we're all horrors.

Visibility is, I have come to understand, a numbers game on MN, as I said I really feel it too, bit hoe that someone might miss me if I went Smile

There are lots of people that have stopped posting (or name changed) that I "miss" but I have never let them know, so I guess it works both ways.

Stick around

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Feminine · 10/10/2011 00:10

Thanks again all.

I am getting stuck in again ...I apologize for my little moment Wink Grin

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LauraIngallsWilder · 10/10/2011 00:20

Feminine Ive been on MN for 7 years and mostly ignored all that time.
You have been here for a year - so you need to get in the queue behind me!

If anyone is going to be noticed first its me d'ya hear???

Now no more attention seeking flouncing :o

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Feminine · 10/10/2011 00:43

laura yes ma'am!
Grin

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