depressed husband who has left

[juliec26]

hi- my husband left me yesterday and we have a 2 year old little girl and I am completey deversated - he says he is having a nervous breakdown - he has a very stress full job own his own estate agent, which is suffering in the current climate - he swears and promises me there is no one else and I do really believe that, but I am soo scared and cant stop crying and feeling sick and desperate to see him - he says he loves me, but not sure how he does and that he needs time to think about stuff as he doesnt now how he feels - We have a very trying little girl and he finds her very stressful - any advice? x

[Ags]

Oh I am very sorry that you are in this situation. Can I ask if you know where he is staying? Also, have you got friends/family who can help you right now? It sounds like too much to have to cope with alone especially while trying to be strong for your little girl.

[micci25]

he needs to get proper help to enable to cope better, not just walk away. is he seeing anyone about how he feels? he should be.

the dd is both of yours. he needs to learn to deal with her behavior. im sure once he has thought things through properly and started getting the help he needs he will come home! sorry you are going through this x