My bf gave birth to her first child three weeks ago. I have only spoken to her once after about a week after the birth (we don't live close) and she was ok and we texted lots. However, I picked up from the texts that she was not in a good place. Lots of tears, crap health visitors making her feel crap about feeding (she is mixed feeding as he had trouble latching on at first so she is expressing and bottle feeding I think).
Anyway, tried to phone a few times but no answer which I wasn't surprised at so I emailed her Mum as I was concerned and she has confirmed that she has got PND. She has been prescribed Seroxat which she was on before she was pregnant but isn't happy to take it apparently.
Her Mum is being fab as is the DH but he has to work lots and is away this week and she is obviously worried how she will cope. I obviously want to drop everything and rush over but of course life/work/my kids prevent that so what else can I do? I never had PND..just general depression 10 months after DS2 was born but that's another story! I feel unable to advise properly when I haven't been there and wanted to hear from Mums who went through it..what would (if anything) of helped you? I have emailed her Mumsnet link saying how it helped me talking to people here but don't know if she is on it yet.
Thanks in advance
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How to help friend with PND?
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futurity · 23/06/2008 11:40
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