Is there anyone out there that can help me, although I don't really want to go into too much detail here.
My beloved DH told me last year that he had suffered sexual abuse between the ages of eight and fifteen. He had kept it concealed for 30 years! He has also suffered the most dreadful physical and emotional abuse of which I've known about for years.
Since this all came to light life has gone from bad to worse and he has left me and our beautiful dcs, 4 and 1. He is in a bad way and I am just devestated by the situation we now find ourselves in. I just don't know which way to turn. Until last year we had a wonderful life together, been together since we were in our teens and we were the envy of all who knew us. Obviously those that know he has gone don't know the real reason and must never know, which apart from my mum leaves me no-one else to talk to.
As I sit here typing this I can't stop crying for my broken little family and I really am hoping that there is someone out there who hs either experienced a similar situation or has an understanding of it.
I seem to spend all day being keeping it together for the children or at work or when I see dh and then when the children go to bed I am alone with my thoughts and tears!
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Childhood abuse that has been kept secret for years. Please talk to me.
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Upsydaisy1 · 18/06/2008 21:28
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