post natal depressoin affecting relationships

[kkkkatie]

i have an 8month ds and my dp and i have a huge bridge between us. We have not shared a bed for a long time as i get so annoyed with him and stop myself sleeping so blame him for keeping me awake with snoring. I thought that our relationship had come to an end, but then thought i should check if i had PND as i was not feeling myself, always really miserable, crying all the time etc. I havent felt right since last sept but then in Nov i had to deal with a tragic event and it took the focus off me thinking about myself. Doctor said i am suffering with PND. Has anyone elses relationship been badly affected. I am miserable in the morning, and in the evening when dp gets home. How long would you give it before deciding if its the relationship or me???

[kkkkatie]

thank you. not going to make any decisions now anyway, I'm going to wait for the AD's to work and see if i see things differently. dp knows i am on ad's and i know if i needed to talk he would be there but he doesn't talk about it. find it really hard to say i love him, he says it all the time and asks me if i love him, but i just feel i have a huge block. really weird. V confussed!