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any tips on hw to get rid of this symptom?

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newmummy27 · 28/02/2008 14:00

I have PND and i have a "tight" chest and lump in my throat sometimes i feel like i cant breathe. i am relaxing now on the settee and baby is asleep. i hate this tight chest thing. does anyone else understand where this is coming from or how o get rid of it?

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jellyrolly · 28/02/2008 14:17

It sounds like the beginnings of an anxiety attack. You're doing the best thing by relaxing, has it helped?

What happens before you get this feeling?

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NAB3wishesfor2008 · 28/02/2008 14:18

I have had that. I would agree it is likely to be a panic attack or a result of stressing.

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newmummy27 · 28/02/2008 14:31

yes i think it is as a result of stressing.. i have had a bad morning and i have built things up. my baby is 15 weeks old and my HV didnt give me proper directions to the clinic which resulted in me going to 2 different community centres before finding the right one, i really could have sobbed while walking back, i felt like i was going to pass out. when i got there, there was some typical competative mothers and it made me feel worse, especially as i was hot and stressing. i couldnt remember how many weeks my baby was and felt totally incompetant, although behind closed doors i am competant, its just in front of other people i might come across as a bit mad

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jellyrolly · 28/02/2008 15:05

What a horrible morning, just what you don't need! I'm sure all those other competitive mothers have times when they feel rubbish behind their happy faces.

Both my ds1 and ds2 have just woken up so will have to go now. Sorry to be brief. I hope you are feeling better now you are back home.

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NAB3wishesfor2008 · 28/02/2008 16:54

Take no notice of other Mothers. My theory is we are all trying are best and are worried we will be found wanting so tend to be shoy offy about what we can do and hide what we can't.

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Kaz1967 · 28/02/2008 17:30

It does sound like Anxiety some things to try

Breathing exercises, Learnt this one at a depression workshop was to breath in and hold the breath for 6 sec then breath out for 9 sec. I find abdominal/diaphragmatic breathing works better for me, it's the type of breathing babies and infants do before they really start using the muscles between the ribs as adults do.. It's not as easy but it works on 2 levels first by using the diaphram it takes less effort and the lungs fell more effectivly so reducing your heart rate, at the same time it also sends messages back to part of the brain using the autonomic nervous system saying everything is OK so reducing your adrenaline production. You will probably need to practice this regally normally they recommend 3-5 times a day for 5 mins. There is an explanation on how to do it here walking.about.com/od/fitness/a/breathing.htm and you may want to look up things by Dennis Lewis (he's a bit cheesy mind)

Physical relaxation - It's a rare person who can just relax often it's easiest to start at one part of the body tense the muscles then relax them I start at my toes and work my way up, I have also been talked through tensing everything holding then relaxing, sometimes it's easier doing it with a voice telling you what to do There is a free one here you can download onto a MP3 player Living Life to The Full www.livinglifetothefull.com it's a CBT course it's free maybe something else you find useful as they have a section on anxiety. There is a basic relaxation description here www.brianmac.demon.co.uk/relax.htm

Visualisation there are probably many forms of this I the one one of my counsellors did was to imagine I was on an island he asked me what it looked like trees, birds look inland what did I see (I saw a river followed it to a pool and waterfall sat down and point blank refused to go any further) My safe place visualisation is now the pool and waterfall. I have found one free online course that describes it's self as guided visualisation www.success.havemorefromlife.co.uk I used a random email programme www.temporaryinbox.com so I don't get spam (I never trust things like this)

There are also several techniques used here www.twu.edu/o-sl/counseling/SelfHelp039.htm

Self hypnosis I know nothing about it but someone else might

With all these things it's practising that's important normally they recommend you do it 2-3 times a day when you get up, go to bed and sometime during the day if you have time. Something like the deep breathing you could do on the train on the way too or from work or sitting in a traffic jam... Visualisation and relaxation not as easy to do it somewhere where you would be self contions

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