Want to pack my bags

[DingdongmerrRADLEYonhigh]

I think alot the reasons are here

But I seriously have had enough, If I had somewhere to go I would pack my bags and disappear and leave dh to everything.

This is the first time I've been honest because I don't want friends getting fed up etc.

But I feel unloved (if he gives me a hug it ends up with him groping and shoving his tongue down my throat so I pull away, unappreciated, i have zero respect from anyone in the house.

I work 3 days a week, the other 4 I do housework try and catch up etc. Even when I do come home from work I have to set about tidying round etc because dh has done practically nothing.

I eat too much food whilst not tasting/watnting it, drink too much alcohol whilst not really wanting/tasting it and I cannot remember the last time I had an unbroken nights sleep, whether it be the cats (keep em in they fight and scratch at bedroom door, lock em out and they spend all night meowing outside bedroom window), dd2 having a bad dream or dh laying all over me.

I just feel that I'm at end of my tether and I'm cryng typing this.

[bettym]

HI

Every mum/wife in the world has felt like this and for me the only way is to scream from the roof top at the old man and just be straight with him - "I can't go on like this and I need help" and as for the bedroom tell him aless he puts the romance back into it - your offffffffff!

The problems is that we are super mum/wife having to do everything - working, keeping the house going, paying all the bills, organising the children and pluss the old man and being the Taxi for everyone - it just seems all work and no play ....... I had a day out last wk. and went to the hairdresses and had lunch out and I felt like a new women - so hun go and do something for yourself to make you feel better and sexy again..........

x

[sarahmikeandharry]

Hi- DingdongmerrRADLEYonhigh

Reading your post has had me in tears- you have the same life as me!!!!! To a degree of course- i have DS1 and am 8months preg with DD!!!!

it was just like reading my own thoughts and feelings!!!!!

Thank you for making me realise i am not the only person treated this way!!!1

i dont have any advice for you but wanted to tell you you are not alone and that i understand where you coming from.

Thanks