so where do I start?? ok. well this time last year we were in a different boat. DH was redundant. This year he is working. We have some money towards christmas. Not a lot though and even less now some idiot has taken my money and not sent me the presents I ordered for the dc. God knows when I will get that back, but probably not in time for christmas. We don't struggle with money, but we never really have anything left over where we can say, 'sod it, i don't feel like cooking lets go out for dinner' I know I should be grateful after how we were last christmas. DD2 was unwrapping DS1s old toys on christmas day last year I am lucky in the way that my dcs don't pester for stuff. Probably because they know we cannot afford it anyway. They have 3-5 things each on their christmas list.
I have far too much housework to do. I just cannot keep on top of it. I rang a cleaning company to come and do a quote then rang them a few days later to cancel it. Apart from the fact I am sure that we would never be able to afford it. I am sat here and the house is a mess. DH is really down lately and I don't know whats wrong with him. We seem to go from one extreme to the other. One minute things are ok between us and the next we are ready to walk out on each other. The other day he said something that really hurt me so I walked out the door and went for a walk for an hour. DS1s behaviour is really getting to me. He is 8 going on 18 and has a severe attitude problem. I ended up screaming at him that he wasn't going to go to judo anymore because I just simply didn't know what else to say.
I have been through brain scans and nerve tests recently which to be honest has scared the life out of me. I am still waiting on some of the results from the nerve tests. I bloody hate where I live. I have got 1 friend in this town. I don't belong around here. I have been made to feel very unwelcome. I am not from round here.
I just feel like I am going round and round in bloody circles all day every day. I either rush round like mad doing stuff, just for it to need doing again the next day, or i can't be bothered and the place gets in even more of a mess. I get so disheartened at it all. DH tries to help but he goes from one extreme to the other, either doing loads to help, or nothing at all. We don't seem to spend any time together. DD2 won't go to sleep at night, and even having tried controlled crying, ends up making herself sick she gets in that much of a state. Before I know it, its 10-11pm, and I just want to go to bed. I don't even get to sit and watch tv for an hour and chill out. When I wake up in the morning I don't feel as though I have slept.
I have been discussing with DH about me going and getting steralized, but tbh, I can't bear the thought of never being pregnant again, even though 5 kids would probably be simply idiotic for me.
I have to go and bath the kids yet. DS1 is in the kitchen having a strop about doing his homework.
I came of my ADs a few months ago and have been feeling ok. Just feel as though I have got a lot on my plate more than actually feeling depressed if that makes sense? oh i don't know. I should just shut up sodding moaning I guess. Just feel like I am starting to hit the bottom again.
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AnAngelWithin · 05/12/2007 16:07
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