I've been reading all this for a few weeks now, as baby sits yelling on my lap, and finally decided to join in.
Have a six-week-old son, my first, and still feel completely out of my depth. Everyone said it would get better at six weeks, but I can't see it.
I just always feel I don't know what I'm doing - maybe this is normal, but it scares me. I can change his nappy, feed him, all the practical stuff, but when he cries and it's not an obvious problem, I just find myself staring at him blankly while he gets hysterical. I just can't seem to make him happy.
It's getting to the stage where I daren't take him out, as he screams, and everyone looks at me like I'm an unfit mother for taking such a small baby out of the house. Maybe I am?
So, last night, had about three hours sleep, one of them only after I begged my husband to do the 4am feed - he had to drive this morning, and does the 'paid' work, so I always feel I shouldn't ask for help.
And now, I've just had to deal with a half-dead frog that the cat's brought in - I've put a washing up bowl on it, and weighed it down with a book.
Any advice/comfort/other people's moans would be much appreciated, on the subject of the frog or the baby.
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Nedmum · 10/07/2007 09:55
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