I'm feeling so down My husband has been offered a funded postgraduate place at uni in September and its miles away no one else did the course that had places from where would need to move there, we both agreed that my daughter who has special needs and has started school will just not handle another move at the moment as she is autistic and needs structure and things to be the same and she is finally getting the intervention and support she needs, so DH has decided that the opportunity is just too much to miss and he is going to spend the next three years in halls of residence at the other end of England!!! Hes also said that his uni money will be his and that ill have to sort myself out financially as he will need his (inc the dependants grant apparently We have been married ten years and he is adament that we arent splitting up im just soo cross