I am in tears writing this. I feel as if every thing is too much.
I have a lovely DS 3.5 and 9 month DD and although work at weekends am more or less stay at home mum.
I feel though Iam constantly battling with DH. When I go to work at the weekend (alt sundays)I always lake sure leave the house in some reasonable state.
I then come back to food all over the carpet, every toy out etc and a filthy kitchen.
My evening is then spent clearing up. If ask DH he doesn't says I moan, we argue then I do it as cam't stand the mess.
I,m not exceptionally houseproud just don't want mice.
DH has taken over the spare room and it is digusting - like a dirty teenage boys room.
We've lives in this house 4 years and still have the old carpets etc.
He thinks nothing off spending his money on several nights out etc but goes balistic if i go overdrawn or use CC.
I have 150 wages from job, CB, 80 Tax credits and he gives me £100 housekeeeping but i can't manage on it.
Worried as have to go for gall bladder removal and will get no help.
My own mum has Dementia and though not bad finds it difficult.
My MIL is too busy making sure every eldery person in 20 miles ok so she can't help.
I know this shpuld go inrelationships too but I feel so on edge.
just want support and not have to battle all the time.
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Babyramone · 23/06/2007 11:44
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