Hi I MN now and then don't think anyone really knows me so I don't care about my name showing. Life is really getting me down today. DS who is turning 3 in March is such an energetic kid and hyper is a word that comes to mind. I can't have a normal life or even a vaguely calm day. He talks incessantly, won't sit still for 5 mins, runs everywhere. We went to the pub for a pint and a snack earlier for less than an hour and we had to leave because he was going up and down the stairs and wouldn't even allow us to finish a single sentence let alone a drink or our snacks. Poured juice on table, salt, tried to escape under the table. He's hyper but I don't think its ADHD. The nursery say hes 'just got more energy than most kids' but don't think anything's wrong nor the HV who says if he can watch a dvd then he can't have it. I even took time off work to watch frm the teachers room this week to see if its just me that he's like that with ie are my parenting skills sh*t. he doesn't sit still for a second. Of 6 kids he had 2 teachers give him at least 50% of their attention over 45 mins. The poor other kids hardly got any. My marriage is pushed to the limit. Normal life is impossible, the supermarket is a nightmare, friends houses we often leave early in embarrasment. DH works 90 hour weeks and over weekends and I think HE is depressed and he has just withdrawn and is threatening to leave the country. I'm tired so tired. has anyone got any suggestions or ideas.
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