info on AND for men?

[divastrop]

i was wondering if anybody could suggest any helpful sites my dp could visit that give info on AND?
i just want thim to be able to understand i'm not being a miserable,negative,narky cow who wallows in self pity because i want to be,and that i do love the baby,i just hate being pregnant.
most of the pregnancy sites/magazines reckon i should be a happy,glowing,shiny haired picture of happiness who may just get the odd backache and need a little extra help around the house when in reality im an emotional wreck who wants it all over with asap.