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Forty tomorrow

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Isyhan · 19/01/2007 19:31

Im forty tomorrow but ever so slightl;y depressed about it. has anyone anything to say to cheer me up??

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ZZMum · 19/01/2007 19:32

40 is FAB FAB FAB -- I love it..

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ZZMum · 19/01/2007 19:34

sorry let me expand -- all the anxieties of youth have gone, the big things achieved... time to relax and enjoy life...

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Isyhan · 19/01/2007 19:36

Yes but your face slides into your neck and your waist into your bum and I went to NEXT to try on some jeans today and they had surround mirrors and I felt crap. (Im a size 12 but still felt crap)

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MarsLady · 19/01/2007 19:37

I love Next jeans. They appreciate the fact that some of us have bottoms!

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Isyhan · 19/01/2007 19:39

The worst think was that the pockets kind of disappeared under my cheeks which just didnt flatter my bum at all.

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CountessDracula · 19/01/2007 19:40

yes I like Next jeans too

(don't like anything else they do though lol)

Hey, I felt like you the night before my 40th , you will feel odd for a bit then it becomes the norm

Have a HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

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emmatomATO · 19/01/2007 19:41

It's better than the alternative honey (6' under!!). Some people havn't been lucky enough to reach our grand old age.

On a more positive note - life really is good up here in the naughty fourties. I've become much more relaxed in myself, care less about what others think and look at sexy women like Helen Mirren, pushing 60, compared to bland airheads like Britney.

The mature woman who walks tall and has life experience is so much more interesting.

Happy Birthday for tomorrow!

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Whizzz · 19/01/2007 19:41

Well I was 40 at Xmas & I don't feel any different to when I was 30 - so don't let the numbers bother you

Have a Happy Birthday

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furcoatandnoknickers · 19/01/2007 19:47

Isyhan - know how you feel, Im 40 on Sunday - we are nearly twins!! Ive been sliding into this feeling since about September - thought it might be SAD but realized that I am just sad!
I did think I would be famous by now, though in Gods name in what I dont know. Actually would hate to be famous - but you know what I mean!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY

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Isyhan · 19/01/2007 20:20

Thanks for the support. Im not properly depressed or anything its just that I just feel that Im wanting people to say 'Oh you only look 35' and then I get annoyed with myself for being so superficial when other 40 year old women are just getting on with it and not obsessing at all.

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brandnewhelsy · 19/01/2007 20:21

Oh, you only look 35 .

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Isyhan · 19/01/2007 20:22

Oh now I feel so much better. You dont look a day over 33 yourself.

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hotmama · 19/01/2007 20:28

I'm 40 in March. So have some sympathies!

At least you have got a size 12 arse - shake it lady.

I'm looking forward to my 40's. I feel a lot more confident in being me.

(Surround mirrors always make you feel crap unless you are a size 6!)

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moondog · 19/01/2007 20:29

I'm 40 in May.
Oh,and a size 12.
I feel better than I have in years.

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brandnewhelsy · 19/01/2007 23:48

Thanks Isyhan! I'm 42 you know.......(hobbles off muttering to self and adjusting wrinkly American Tan tights)

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crumbs · 19/01/2007 23:50

11 minutes to go!

I passed that milestone a month back - still here...!

Happy birthday for tomorrow!

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brandnewhelsy · 19/01/2007 23:54

Have a lovely birthday, hope you're doing something fab to celebrate.

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crumbs · 20/01/2007 00:03

HappyBirthday!^

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DimpledThighs · 20/01/2007 00:14

happy birthday beautiful

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NotAnOtter · 20/01/2007 00:17

happy birthday - 9 more months for me!

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JoolsToo · 20/01/2007 00:18

I'm over 50 does that make you feel better?

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suzycreamcheese · 20/01/2007 00:28

i'm 40 next weekend, and our young neighbour says to me today 'alright babes'; its nice!

its just a number...
but do know bit how you feel..

there is a power with it, age, too and knowing yourself..
enjoy, enjoy your day and celebrate!
i will be!

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mummylin2495 · 20/01/2007 00:40

isyhan may i be the first to wish you a very happy birthday.have a great day, any party lined up ?

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alipiggie · 20/01/2007 01:05

Life only gets better - I'm going to be 42 this year. I'm in a wonderful place in the world, Expat may disagree. My boys are wonderful. All i need is a good man. Get a great bottle of champagne and have a blast. Happy Birthday to you. Here's to the next 40

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