I wondered if I'm the only 1 who didnt get any of the 'joy' etc on birth of child, as promised in those annoying magazines I was given about pregnancy? I was depressed in pregnancy, not just about getting fatter and more invisible every day [the 1 time in your life you need to get drunk & you cant] but about having a girl; I expected this to dissapear when I 1st saw the baby, to get that 'rush of love' I keep reading about from all the smug celebrity mothers, but nothing.
2 months on, still nothing, except regret - Will I ever actually like my child, and why does no-one warn you it could be like this, instead of promising joy elation and fullfillment?!
It seems its taboo to feel any different [I tried to chat on the Huggies forum but was told the topic was 'inapropriate'] I've tried prozac, no change. Surely I cant be the only woman who doesnt like her baby?!!
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Motherhood not as joyful as advertised!
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noneatall007 · 10/01/2007 15:32
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