Have posted before regarding age gap between myself and dh - 15 years - I am 40, dh 55. I have two dd's 8 and 1. Scared of being alone in later years for longer than average. Also feeling guilty that dd's have an older dad even though he is great with them - spends time etc. already plotting to move in with eldest dd and know this is totally unfair. Lady next door was widdowed mid 60's and seems to spend the majority of her time alone - has 3 dcs but two of them live away. She says she has to go out every few days to stop herself going crazy! I am fairly gregarious and seem to need company. Now completely anxious and need to somehow come back to the here and now. I remember my grandmother crying and saying how lonely she felt following the death of my grandfather and this has always stuck in my mind. Will be taking ads soon as anxiety has got really bad. Wish I could stop dwelling on lady next door and my own impending predicament.
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Convinced of loneliness in old age/late middle age
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monkeytree · 23/08/2014 23:17
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