Hello,
I've never really enjoyed my life to be honest. I've always worked hard, studied, and hoped things would improve but they never really have.
I won't bore you with the background (broken engagement, debt, alcoholism) but today I'm 31 years old, overweight, single, stuck in a rented room hundreds of miles from my parents and doing a job I hate. (Contract finishes January). I've never really enjoyed any job I've done despite loads of education/training.
Now, what I would really like is to go to sleep and never wake up again. Or somehow donate all my organs to people who DO want to live! I just don't see the point in carrying on - why is it such a taboo to just opt-out of life in the same way that you opt-out of anything else that you don't enjoy/aren't good at.
However I would not do this because my parents would be devastated. I should say they know a little but they get upset when I hint about just how bad I feel and tell them that I wish they'd never had me because I just find life something to be endured and I must be a source of worry and disappointment to them.
So what I want to do is basically say to them - I will not kill myself but basically I'm your problem now. (They have plenty of money). I've done 30 years of this shite and I've had enough. Ie I would move back home and just "exist" until THEY shuffle off (they are 60 years old). Then I'll end it. And not have to deal with pensions or lack thereof.
Now, I realise this all sounds selfish but is it not selfish to have children and make them deal with this thing we call life?
I've felt this way for years but have often blocked it out with antidepressants.
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Suicide compromise
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kirsten123 · 14/07/2014 18:54
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