Psychomum5 Update - From Flame's perspective

[Flamesparrow]

I hope you don't mind Psycho, but I wanted to let people know how you are doing - from my persepctive.

You have all been so supportive to Psycho since she started a "feeling depressed" thread.

I want to say that I am starting to see my friend back again

The pills are obviously helping. We are laughing again, and able to just sit and chat. The house feels much less tense when you walk in. She is taking fewer painkillers.

I hadn't realised quite how much had changed until I started to get my friend back again.

I just want to thank you all for supporting her.

[BarefootJasnem]

I was thinking about how you/she (Psycho) wass this morning, but didn't want to resurrect the old thread. Thanks for the update.

Do you agree Pshcho????

[mummyhill]

Was wondering how PM was doing Thanks Flame.

I hope the positive trend continues. PM is sooo lucky to have such good friends.

[CheesyFeet]

Great to hear that she is on the mend

[essbee]

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[psychomum5]

ooh....a message about me


I like it......;ots....can ya tell?????

and yes, thankyou all lots for the support....not been here in a while, got sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much going on I am going insane (or psycho)

am now COMPLETELY OFF the pain killers

and also feeling more 'me' again. helped lots in part to my hectic schedule(sp?) re-appearing. Have got school and ballet/stge/dance runs on, plus busy doing what ever it is I do, and voila.....ME!!!!!

Even DH says so, and it takes a lot for that to happen.

Am tonight back on my beloved wine...(oooh.....and how long has it been....), and littlist kiddie starts school tomorrow (and that has bought on the tears, hence the wine!).

Anyhoo......Tesco here so off to un pack....will be back shortly, so watch this space

[psychomum5]

and.....................no one loves me!!!!


hey ho...will go watch CSI and get drunk then

[MerlinsBeard]

((((((((((((((((((psycho))))))))))))))))

I didn;t want to be the one who kept ressurecting teh other thread!

U would not believe how pleased i am that u r off the painkillers!



Thank you for this Flame

[CantSleepWontSleep]

Have you made it to your bookshop for a browse yet though? If they're all off at school from tomorrow then perhaps you can find some 'me' time to do this next week .

[Sparkler1]

psychomum5 - hello. I must have missed the other thread. What's happened? Hope you are okay?
Glad to hear that you are off the painkillers now - it's been a while and you are on the mend. Looks like it could be a boozy night on our next meetup.

[psychomum5]

I haven't gone looking for it to be honest MoM....

have been sooo busy its been untrue, plus I've been hiding too as feeling like I need some 'real life' space, if you can understand that??

thankyou for the hugs tho....much needed tonight as I feeling rather sad about J going off to 'big-school'...tis a big step for him, a huger one for me....this is the only life I've know really since, well, for-ever. What with training as a Nanny, then being one for 4yrs, then being a mummy.....I've only ever know babies and pre-schoolers and not known how to have 'free-time'......oooh, the shock/joy/possibilities/scariness.

BUT.......am off to waterstones for a whole 1 half hours for me-time with a new book and coffee. One dream being done tomorrow......skip, skip, skip

[BarefootJasnem]

I'm missing CSI to remind you I noticed this thread and replied within 3 minutes of Flame posting it! How much more love do you need?????

Really good news re the painkillers. You definitely sound positive, so keep up the good work.

[BarefootJasnem]

I'm missing CSI to remind you I noticed this thread and replied within 3 minutes of Flame posting it! How much more love do you need?????

Really good news re the painkillers. You definitely sound positive, so keep up the good work.

[psychomum5]

CSWS....snap for the same 'bookshop' thoughts.....and for sparkler.......one huge boozy night throroughly being looked forward to (when is it by the way....have lost the thread thro being 'gone')

[psychomum5]

barefootjasnem...sorry....am ignoring the positive replies already written.

sorry....but thankyou

[MerlinsBeard]

Enjoy yourself

U finally get some "me" time, take advantage!

And if u get really tetchy about not having any pre schoolers to look after i am sure between Flame, Calebsmummy and I we can fill your void

Although i am not entirely convinced my Mr Highly Strung Kinmg Of The Stroppers is really what you want to deal with lolol

[calebsmummy]

Ooooh yes, two preschoolers going spare here (or is that Mother of two preschoolers going spare here )

Psycho, I am so pleased that things are better for you, even if it's because your life is once again manic!! Have been worrying lots about you.

Was talking to Flame yesterday and said when JJ is settled into school, you and she should come here for the day (and of course MoM is invited too...when we can persuade her to move nearer ) Flame needs to see my shiny sink and you need to sit down, put your feet up and eat cake and drink coffee....sound good?

Enjoy your 'me' time tomorrow.. it sounds fantastic, I will book mine for next September. And huge hugs for JJ tomorrow at school.

Take care. x x x x x x

[calebsmummy]

Mom, have you renamed J? Fab name

[mustrunmore]

[hello] I didn't post on the other thread, but did do some kind of psychic empathy for you (ie never got round to posting, as I thought talking to Flame on the post natal thread was virtually the same thing )

[MerlinsBeard]

I didn;t mean J! I meant O!!!! Would be easier if he could tell me what he was stropping for!

[psychomum5]

ad break...am back, briefly

[psychomum5]

calebsmummy....yup....truley manic here. altho it has been in part for a sad reason too. Good friends dad died last week, and so have been helping her a bit too....than Penny moved last friday, along with the funeral. I went to said funeral with three beds in the car ready to fly to Penny straight after. Got some comical retorts I can tell you!!!! (not taking anything away from the funral....was the most moving and beautifully spoken about I have ever been to.

Sooooo....also have had the many dance runs....now up to 33 dance classes btween all five....and thud...no wonder I am stressed!!!!!!!!!!

anyhoo....CSI...am off for a mo again

[catj]

Glad you're feeling better. My two start pre-school tomorrow (scary thought!). Just for you-meet up

[psychomum5]

catj...thankyou (and have been meaning to get in touch soon too. will try to sort something next week now)

yay for meet-up tho. in huge need for 'time-out', not least because DH has been working 7dys a wk recently, what with all these people moving/extending etc...(tut!).

and missed your replying there munstrunmore....am I to believe that it is you offering me n flame a bed in nov????....(feel free to ignore me if I am talking nonsense!)

[mustrunmore]

Er, well a sofabed anyway. Prob with a small boy leaping on you in the morning thinking Granny is staying And a very stressed dh who will have had both kids the night before (unheard of!) Er, that came out wrong... dh wont be leaping, I hope!

[mustrunmore]

And said small boy will be hyper, as his birthday is the day of the party; i only realised last week