I have done a truly terrible thing and there is no-one at home I can talk about it with because I'm worried of what they will think of me.
I went to a party with some friends, taking dd with us. There was a bouncy castle and fun and games for all the lo's and dd got straight in there!
My friends ds was joinng in too and they were both playing happily until dd went on one of her mad rampages. The behaviour was truly awful and I ended up huddled in a corner, crying my eyes out, whilse everyone else ran around after her.
My friend noticed me, came up and asked what was wrong and I basically told her that I was sick of my dd, I didn't want her anymore, and why did I bother having her in the first place?
I'm feeling thoroughly ashamed of myself and I didn't mean a single word I said. I love my dd with all my heart but her behaviour wears me out and gets me down, to the point where I can't even face taking her out in public anymore. This only makes things worse though, because she gets agitated indoors.
My dh works long hours, my parents are no help whatsoever and I feel so alone with it all. Dh will keep making comments like, it's my fault because I'm too soft with her/I give in too easily and although to a certain extent he is right, I don't need to keep being reminded of it.
I go to bed dreading that something might happen to her during the night because I said I didn't want her and the thought of any harm coming to her is eating me up. I feel sick all the time with worry, but I really don't know what to do or how to handle my situation.
I am in the process of sorting out a better routine for us both, as we are returning to work today, and I am trying to be calm when she plays up. I've decided to do it alone, simply because I feel I already do.
Sorry this is a bit long winded, and I'm sorry if I have offended anyone. I'm pleased to have been able to let it out. Thank you.
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Feeling like the worst mother ever
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loopylou0612 · 06/09/2006 10:21
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